Kay’s World

Kay, her grandma, and I recently attended an art exhibit showcasing pieces created by the Pre-K students. Each class displayed art inspired by a renowned artist, accompanied by a brief biography of their chosen inspiration. Kay’s class drew inspiration from Frida Kahlo, and I loved seeing how they expressed themselves through such a unique and…

November 13th marked a full year of writing these blogs and sharing them with you all. Wow! When I was first offered the opportunity to write about Kay’s life and our experiences, I was excited but a bit hesitant. I had never thought of myself as a “writer” or as someone who could regularly document…

In celebration of World Diabetes Day, I had the opportunity to read a special book to Kay’s class that introduces diabetes in a way children can understand. I’ve said it before, but I truly love Kay’s school! They are so dedicated to advocating for each student and creating an inclusive environment where everyone is involved.…

November is not only Diabetes Awareness Month, but November 14th is also World Diabetes Day! It’s hard to believe that next month will mark six months since Kay was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes. I’ve learned so much since her diagnosis and continue to pick up new insights every day!   Support groups have been…

Over the weekend, Kay had her last game of the fall T-Ball season, and it was a perfect day! We had such a great time enjoying the beautiful weather and the company of friends we don’t see as often as we’d like. Life gets busy with our children’s therapies, school, appointments, and other activities. T-Ball…

Kay had T-Ball again over the weekend, and it’s hard to believe she only has one more game left in the season! An eight-week season sounds like plenty of time, but it really does fly by. Fall T-Ball is a favorite, as the cooler weather finally makes it enjoyable to be outside running around without…

We wrapped up October with Down Syndrome Awareness Month and are now diving into November, which means it’s Diabetes Awareness Month! Two meaningful months, back-to-back, filled with opportunities to spread awareness and educate others. This November is especially exciting because we’ll be attending Kay’s first diabetes walk, hosted by Breakthrough T1D, an organization dedicated to…

Kay had a wonderful Halloween, starting the evening by Trick-or-Treating around our neighborhood. Dressed in her adorable kitty costume, she visited a few neighbors before getting a bit tired; her early bedtime still holds, and though I tried to stretch it a bit, after a few houses, she began asking to go home.   Back…

Over the weekend, Kay and I celebrated one of her friends turning 4! The party was at Wally Wombats, Kay’s favorite indoor play place, where she spent the morning eating pizza, devouring homemade cupcakes, and having the best time running, climbing, jumping, and endlessly going down slides with her friends!   It’s amazing to see…

Kay’s school held a Trunk or Treat, and I couldn’t wait to take her! We arrived about 30 minutes before the event started, and if you know toddlers, you know that arriving early can sometimes be a gamble!   Thankfully, we were able to pass the time on the playground, which kept Kay happily entertained.…

Kay and I recently joined our first Music Makers session at GiGi’s Playhouse, and it was such a hit! The program is new, with only a few sessions so far, and I had a good feeling Kay would love it—she’s all about music!   This week’s theme was Halloween, making it even more exciting. We…

GiGi’s Playhouse Las Vegas hosted its first annual Halloween Party over the weekend, and the playhouse was buzzing with excitement! Our incredible friends came dressed in all sorts of fun costumes, the music was lively, people were dancing, and there were plenty of delicious snacks for everyone. Kay had an absolute blast, running around freely,…

Over the weekend, Kay played another game of T-ball, and this time they also took Fall Ball pictures! I was able to stand by as Kay posed in front of a backdrop, and I can’t wait to see how the pictures turn out. Eventually, they’ll create a personalized player card for Kay, which we’ll get…

Kay’s school recently hosted their Pre-K Fall Festival, and it was such a fun time with various games and activities. Kay even got to wear her costume! Initially, she wasn’t too sure about wearing it, even though she picked it out herself this year. Thankfully, once we arrived at school, her mood brightened, but we…

Kay recently caught her first cold since being diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes. While it wasn’t a major illness, I quickly realized how even a mild cold could impact her blood sugar. In the days leading up to her cold, her blood sugars were consistently high, and no matter what I tried, they wouldn’t come…

Saturday brought another exciting T-Ball game for Kay! Even though it’s still hot in Vegas, I’m hopeful the weather will start cooling down by next week—something I’m looking forward to! Kay loves playing T-Ball and being outdoors, but the heat can make it tough for everyone to fully enjoy. Thankfully, the league provides buddies, when…

October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month (also known as Acceptance Month)! This is a time dedicated to advocating for inclusion, breaking down myths, and sharing facts to better educate the world. It’s all about helping others understand that individuals with Down Syndrome are just like you and me.   Recently, I came across a video…

Another weekend means another T-ball game for Kay! We’re on to the second game of the season, and the heat is still relentless. Saturday’s game was a bit quicker since we were missing a few team members—understandable given the hot weather.   Watching Kay play and have fun is such a joy, especially when she…

Kay now has an insulin pump! This is such an exciting milestone; one I’ve been eager to reach. Since Kay is still so young and newly diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes, her insulin needs can change from day to day. When giving her shots, I was limited by how much insulin I could safely administer.…

T-Ball is back, and we couldn’t be more excited! Last season was Kay’s first time playing, and she had such a blast that I knew we had to sign her up for the fall ball season. Opening day was a hit, and Kay had an amazing time! Despite the warm weather, we made the most…

Kay’s school kicked off the year with its first family engagement event! These events happen several times throughout the school year, and each one offers something new. This time, the local fire department paid a visit! Since the fire station is right next door to the school, a few firefighters stopped by with their fire…

Kay had her six-month checkup with the ENT, which is usually a quick but necessary visit. Since Kay has smaller ears, she’s more prone to ear infections, and too many could mean needing ear tubes. Thankfully, while she’s had a few infections, it’s not enough to require tubes yet—good news!   During the appointment, the…

Kay and I had so much fun celebrating her friend Leo’s 4th birthday this weekend! The party was held at GiGi’s Playhouse, which is such a special place for our community. I love that we can gather with our friends and celebrate important moments at a place that means so much to us.   The…

My mom and I had the joy of attending the 2nd annual GiGi’s Playhouse gala, themed “I Have a Voice.” A few months ago, I had the chance to write about what GiGi’s Playhouse means to our family and the positive impact it’s had on us. To my surprise, I was later invited to film…

This past weekend, my mom and I attended an incredible summit hosted by Breakthrough T1D, a global organization dedicated to research and advocacy for Type 1 diabetes.   Back when Kay was first diagnosed and, in the hospital, I was given a backpack filled with helpful resources, children’s books about Type 1, and a sweet…

Kay recently had her six-month checkup with her audiologist! For those who don’t know, Kay was born with severe hearing loss in her right ear. To help with this, she wears a BAHA (bone-anchored hearing aid) that allows sound from her left ear to travel to her right. Technology has come so far, and in…

Kay’s little league T-Ball team recently hosted a special event that was beyond exciting. Two bands from Japan, LOBRAVE (an all-male group) and PIPPA (an all-female group), visited Las Vegas to film content for a possible music video! These groups are known for entertaining children and adults with special needs, and they regularly visit hospitals…

Our local GiGi’s Playhouse recently announced they were looking for community members to participate in a video that will be featured at this year’s gala. I thought it would be a fun experience for Kay and me, so we decided to join in!   I’m so glad we did because while we were there, we…

I spent Kay’s first week of school in the nurse’s office, waiting for her to finish breakfast so I could administer her insulin. Before school started, I was informed that a nurse would only be available two days a week, meaning I would have to manage Kay’s care on the other two days, as she…

I recently switched Kay’s endocrinologist because I felt the care she was receiving wasn’t up to the standard she deserves. I understand that doctors can be busy, and sometimes our options are limited, but I refuse to settle for mediocre care when it comes to Kay’s health.   If Kay doesn’t receive the proper treatment,…

It’s been just over two months since Kay was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes, and although that might seem like enough time to adjust, everything still feels very new to us. There’s so much to learn and figure out, and each day brings its own set of challenges.   Kay seems to be fluctuating in…

Kay and I recently attended our final LMNOP class at GiGi’s Playhouse for the summer. With most of the summer programs taking a break until fall—and some even shifting their schedules—it was a bittersweet moment.   LMNOP has always been a highlight for both of us. I’ve mentioned before how these programs go beyond their…

Kay and I recently had the joy of celebrating one of her friends’ fourth birthdays! The best part was that the party was held at GiGi’s Playhouse, a place close to our hearts.   We met this family when Kay was just 3 months old. I remember that day so clearly—we were at a park…

Kay’s first day of school looks a little different this year. Instead of walking her up to the building and handing her off to the teachers, I got to follow kay inside and hang with her while she ate her breakfast and follow up with an insulin shot before taking myself back home.   Typically,…

The Friday before Kay returned to school, I had a meeting with her two main teachers and the other Pre-K teachers who will be working with her. It was a brief meeting where I shared important information about Kay and what her diabetes means for her at school.   I joked that if Kay isn’t…

Kay and I recently attended the final Leaps and Bounds class at GiGi’s Playhouse until fall. It was my first time volunteering consistently for something, and I’m so glad it was with GiGi’s Playhouse! The playhouse feels like a second home to us, and I loved being able to contribute to one of their programs.…

Kay and I recently spent an afternoon at Wally Wombats with some friends, and it was a much-needed outing. It had been a while since our last visit, and I knew it would be a great way for Kay to burn off some energy and have some fun.   Watching Kay play and interact with…

Kay and I had the opportunity to help with Open Play again over the weekend at GiGi’s Playhouse. Since we usually attend Open Play every Saturday, I’m always happy to lend a hand whenever I can. I enjoy arriving early to set out toys and prepare the playhouse for visitors and other volunteers.   I’ve…

Kay continues to attend her weekly therapy sessions, which take place every Tuesday afternoon. These sessions include physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech therapy. Typically, Kay goes back to her sessions without any issues. However, lately, she has been more hesitant and asks me to accompany her or walk her back. Despite her requests, I…

A month ago, I came across a post from GiGi’s Playhouse Las Vegas asking for volunteers to share their stories for a chance to be featured in a video at this year’s gala in September. The theme is “I Have a Voice.” Eager to participate, I wrote in, sharing a brief part of my story…

Leaps and Bounds is a program that is offered GiGi’s Playhouse that runs every other week. Kay absolutely loves it, and we both always have so much fun. This week’s theme was “Under the Sea.” The kids made their own jellyfish crafts, complete with googly eyes. Kay loves anything involving coloring, though it seemed like…

Kay and I returned to GiGi’s Playhouse for another session of the LMNOP program, which stands for Language, Music, and Our Peeps! Last week’s lesson was centered around Five Little Monkeys, one of Kay’s favorite books and songs.   Each session typically includes a book or activity, teaching certain signs related to the lesson, and…

Every Saturday, GiGi’s Playhouse hosts an Open Play session for two hours, inviting families to come together and let their kids enjoy everything the playhouse has to offer.   Kay and I usually attend every week to hang out with friends, and Kay loves getting out of the house. This time, I got to help…

Can you believe it’s already been over a month since Kay was diagnosed with diabetes?! I’m still adjusting to this new way of life and learning more every day. Fortunately, Kay is still in the honeymoon phase, which means she hasn’t needed insulin yet, as her pancreas is still producing enough insulin on its own.…

July 13th was my mom’s birthday. We spent most of the day relaxing, and later, my parents went out to dinner with friends. After dinner they all came back to celebrate with ice cream and a red velvet cake!   One of Kay’s favorite songs to sing is “Happy Birthday,” which I find so funny!…

This year, we had a quieter Fourth of July. The extreme heat has been challenging, especially since Kay’s diabetes diagnosis, so I’ve been keeping her indoors as much as possible. We haven’t gone swimming either, as I’m concerned about her Dexcom reader falling off, which provides constant glucose readings. Although other parents have reassured me…

On July 2nd, we celebrated my birthday! My dad surprised me with coffee from Dutch Bros, and I was thrilled because they had brought back my favorite seasonal drink – the cookie dough freeze! Kay also helped my mom bring me my birthday card and gift. Kay loves having a task and takes pleasure in…

Kay and I attended our second Leaps and Bounds program at our local GiGi’s Playhouse! I volunteered for this exciting program. Unfortunately, we had to miss the second session because it was just a few days after Kay came home from the hospital, and we had a lot going on. The theme for our last…

We had a relaxing day at home for Father’s Day this year. Lately, we’ve been keeping things low-key, preferring to stay home to ensure we’re prepared if Kay needs extra care or if her glucose levels change drastically.   Just when I think I’m getting the hang of things, Kay always throws me a curveball!…

Before the end of the school year, I signed Kay up for ESY (Extended School Year). This program runs from the end of June to the end of July, differing slightly from her usual Monday-to-Thursday Pre-K schedule by running Monday through Friday, but maintaining the same duration of two hours and thirty minutes.   Kay…

On Thursday, June 13th, Kay had her first appointment with her endocrinologist. I eagerly anticipated this visit, hoping it would bring new opportunities, provide a wealth of knowledge, and alleviate some of my anxiety. (One can hope, right?)   I was grateful my mom could accompany us to this crucial appointment, as having an extra…

Kay had a follow-up appointment with her pediatrician on Tuesday. They were sympathetic about Kay’s diagnosis and emphasized that this would be a significant learning experience for all of us. I couldn’t agree more! There was no additional news from the pediatrician regarding next steps, as we are scheduled to see Kay’s endocrinologist on Thursday.…

On the afternoon of Monday, June 9th, Kay was finally discharged from the hospital! We were both more than ready to be home and back in our own beds. While I felt nervous, I was confident I could meet Kay’s needs, and I reassured the hospital staff that I would bring her back if anything…

Kay stayed in the hospital from Thursday, June 6th, until Monday, June 10th, when we were finally released late in the afternoon. It was a rough few days, and neither Kay nor I got much sleep due to the nurses and doctors frequently checking on her.   During our stay, Kay and I had two…

Kay and I had a lot of plans last weekend, none of which involved a hospital stay! On Thursday, June 6th, Kay had a pediatrician appointment. I had scheduled it due to a persistent rash on Kay that over-the-counter creams couldn’t alleviate. Given that she had recently been on medication for an ear infection, a…

Kay had the wonderful opportunity to meet her great Aunt Marylin, her second cousin Tavis for the first time, and reunite with her second Cousin Kenny! Aunt Marylin was visiting her two sons, Kenny and Tavis, and on her way back home, they decided to stop by for a quick visit. Although brief, any time…

I love that GiGi’s Playhouse offers open play every Saturday from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm. Families can drop in and enjoy free playtime with everyone. Kay and I decided to spend our morning there, hanging out with our friends. As a mom, it’s wonderful to have a safe place where our kids can play…

Another new program launched at our GiGi’s Playhouse this past Thursday, and I’m thrilled to be one of the volunteers! The program, called Leaps and Bounds, promotes social, emotional, and motor skills development. Children engage in fun activities that require movement and interaction with their environment.   We practiced standing in line and waiting for…

I know I write about GiGi’s Playhouse a lot, but I truly cannot say enough great things about it! I’m so grateful to have a place for Kay and her peers to play and hang out. The other day, Kay and I spent the entire morning at GiGi’s, enjoying time with friends. It’s wonderful to…

We spent Memorial Day swimming and basking in the sun with my parents. It was the perfect, relaxing day, and I’m grateful for moments like these while remembering the sacrifices made for us to have this day and its significance.   Kay loves the pool and swimming, though I’ve had trouble finding a floatie or…

As Kay’s first school year comes to an end, I find myself reflecting on the journey. When I took Kay to her first day of Pre-K back in January, I was worried. I feared that the other kids might not treat her as one of their own because Kay is a bit different. She doesn’t…

Recently we celebrated my dad’s birthday. My parents went out for dinner, and then we continued the celebration at home with cake and ice cream. Kay loves birthday celebrations, especially because “Happy Birthday” is one of her favorite songs to sing!   The rest of the night was spent relaxing at home together. Kay had…

This Mother’s Day brought a unique twist for my mom and me as we found ourselves spending most of it with Kay, navigating airports and airplanes from Oregon back to Las Vegas!   For this trip, I decided to tap into available resources to ensure a smoother journey. A friend mentioned TSA Cares, a program…

The DSP Summit 2024 was just as memorable and extraordinary as ever!   Despite Kay’s initial lack of enthusiasm upon arrival, she truly shone after lunch, revealing her outgoing and cheerful self.   Kay and I seized the chance to have a few photos taken by the talented photographer capturing the Summit’s remarkable moments. I’m…

Kay, my mother, and I recently embarked on a brief but memorable trip to Oregon! Though our time there flew by, we packed it with loads of fun.   Our journey began with a flight on a Thursday, though Kay, being a tired toddler, made it a bit challenging with her discomfort from the change…

Sunday rolled around again, marking another eagerly anticipated LMNOP class for Kay and me! Our visits to GiGi’s Playhouse are always a highlight, with a plethora of activities to explore, and the promise of even more as new programs are introduced.   This session, our focus was on celebrating moms ahead of Mother’s Day, delving…

Kay absolutely loves her time on the T-Ball field, and with the season winding down, she’ll surely miss it. Just two more games left, and then we’ll have to wait until next year rolls around for more fun. Luckily, the timing of T-Ball season couldn’t be better, as our weather heats up, making it tough…

GiGi’s Playhouse National has just launched an exciting contest inviting submissions of personal stories about the significance of Down Syndrome. The prize includes both cash and a donation to your local GiGi’s Playhouse chapter – an opportunity too good to miss! While the winner has yet to be revealed, I couldn’t resist the chance to…

Another Saturday means another afternoon of T-Ball excitement for Kay! As the eight-week season progresses, I can’t help but feel a twinge of sadness at the thought of it coming to an end. But seeing Kay’s infectious smile, hearing her laughter, and witnessing her sheer joy on the field reaffirms that signing her up was…

Kay and I had a wonderful time at a family engagement event organized by her school, this time featuring “Breakfast and Books.” These events are such a testament to the care and commitment that Kay’s school has not only for their students but also for their families.   The breakfast spread was impressive, complete with…

Kay and I recently attended an event called “A Little Extra PT,” hosted by Down Syndrome Connections, a non-profit serving our community. We’re fortunate to have not just one, but three outstanding organizations dedicated to supporting individuals with Down Syndrome.   One of the standout features of Down Syndrome Connections is their diverse range of…

Kay and I attended our second LMNOP session at GiGi’s Playhouse! I appreciate how each session brings something new, keeping both kids and parents engaged and eagerly anticipating what’s in store for the next week.   This session’s focus was on the beloved book “Brown Bear, Brown Bear” – a personal favorite of mine! Regardless…

My parents organized a street potluck with some of our neighbors from around the area. Dad smoked pulled pork while Mom prepared a variety of sides. We set up tables and chairs, and as our neighbors arrived, they pitched in, helping arrange seating and placing dishes on the table.   More neighbors soon joined in,…

This weekend overflowed with activities! From sports, to playtime, classes with friends, and a delightful dinner gathering with loved ones.   Our family and friends feast featured two varieties of mouthwatering smoked ribs expertly crafted by my dad, complemented by an array of delicious sides prepared by my mom. It was heartening to share these…

Kay and I had the pleasure of joining our first-ever LMNOP class at GiGi’s Playhouse since its opening, alongside our friends!   LMNOP, short for Language Music N’ Our Peeps, is a dynamic program designed to facilitate parent-child learning through basic sign language and other communication methods, all set to the backdrop of music and…

This weekend marked a significant milestone for Kay as she participated in her very first t-ball game! The weather couldn’t have been more perfect, and I’m immensely grateful for organizations like Miracle League that offer Kay the chance to engage in enjoyable activities alongside her peers.   The sheer delight on Kay’s face upon arriving…

Kay, my boyfriend, and I decided to dedicate a day to pure enjoyment and bonding! It had been a while since Kay had visited Wally Wombats, so I thought it was time to let her revel in the fun. Wally Wombats holds a special place in both our hearts as it’s a haven where Kay…

March hasn’t been too kind to our T-Ball plans! Despite having one event and two games scheduled this month, all of them had to be postponed because of the weather. But I’m keeping my fingers crossed that April will bring us better luck and we can finally kick off the T-Ball season!   Last Sunday…

Kay’s recent visit to her ENT for her routine 6-month check in was reassuring. Given the smaller ear canals often associated with Down Syndrome, individuals like Kay are more prone to ear infections, along with enlarged tonsils and adenoids. At just a year old, Kay underwent surgery to address her enlarged tonsils and adenoids, which…

Sunday marked the 3rd annual GiGi’s Playhouse GiGi Fit Acceptance Challenge, a vibrant event featuring a 5k Fun Run, a 1-mile inspirational walk, and a Kids Dash for Down Syndrome.   Each year, I eagerly anticipate this wonderful occasion. It’s a chance to wear playful attire like tutus and whimsical socks, along with shirts bearing…

Saturday was supposed to be Kay’s debut T-Ball game, an event eagerly anticipated by both of us. However, Mother Nature had different plans, leading the league to call off the game due to inclement weather. While disappointed by the cancellation, I agreed that it was better for the kids not to endure unpleasant conditions on…

Last Friday, Kay’s school organized a family engagement event for the Pre-K students. Since Kay doesn’t usually have classes on Fridays, these special activities are a treat for her from time to time. The focus of last week’s gathering was a hands-on pizza-making session!   Pizza happens to be Kay’s absolute favorite food, and she…

On Thursday, March 21st, we celebrated World Down Syndrome Day! Each year, I find myself deeply thankful for the opportunity to honor this remarkable day because of Kay. It’s a time when we rally our loved ones to sport silly or mismatched socks, symbolizing chromosomes, in celebration.   The significance of socks in representing chromosomes…

Kay’s weekly therapy sessions have transitioned from Friday afternoons to Tuesday afternoons, a change I believe will greatly benefit us. By tackling therapy early in the week and maintaining the same schedule, it feels like a seamless transition.   Witnessing Kay’s growing independence has been a remarkable experience. As she confidently walks hand in hand…

Excitement fills the air as Kay prepares to embark on her T-Ball journey with The Angels. From the thrill of picking up her jersey and hat to envisioning her walk-out song, every moment is a testament to her eagerness to hit the field.   Kay and I recently had the joy of picking up her…

On Saturday, March 9th, a momentous occasion unfolded as Las Vegas GiGi’s Playhouse opened its doors! This achievement was made possible by our incredible community, whose unwavering support has been instrumental since the project’s inception in 2019, long before Kay came into the world. Spearheaded by a group of determined mothers, undeterred even by the…

This Sunday, Kay and I had a blast attending the 6th birthday party of one of her friends at Chuck E. Cheese! It had been ages since my last visit, and things were a bit different, but Kay and I thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. Kay dove into games, even taking a shot at a driving game,…

Kay recently underwent another hearing test through Child Find, an organization I highly appreciate for its abundant resources and useful tools. Typically, Kay meets with her audiologist every six months. During these sessions, the audiologist ensures her Bone Anchored Hearing Aid (BAHA) is in optimal condition, making any necessary updates to maintain its effectiveness. Following…

Kay’s love for school remains unwavering, evident in her newfound independence as she confidently strides into the entrance without even a backward glance when I drop her off.   Receiving spontaneous pictures from her teacher is always a highlight for me. These snapshots capture Kay in various scenarios, whether it’s on the playground or in…

Taking advantage of Kay’s day off from school for President’s Day, we decided to embrace the beautiful weather and head to the park for some fun. As we arrived, it became apparent that we weren’t the only ones capitalizing on the day off and favorable conditions to enjoy the park.   Kay’s enthusiasm for the…

Kay recently had the pleasure of meeting her second cousin, Kenny! We seized the opportunity for a brief visit with my cousin, who managed to squeeze in a short trip to Las Vegas. It had been a few years since I last saw him, and he hadn’t yet met Kay, so I’m thrilled that he…

Last Saturday, my parents, Kay, and I had the pleasure of attending the 2024 Super Fest organized by the Matthew Foundation. Super Fest is a unique Football, Cheer, and Sideline Reporting Camp that embraces inclusivity for individuals of all abilities – a truly remarkable initiative!   Kay had the opportunity to step into the world…

One valuable lesson I’ve grasped is that there’s often a purpose behind every occurrence, even when it’s something you’d rather avoid.   In a twist of fate, just within a week of showcasing my new car in the previous blog, an unexpected incident unfolded. While Kay and I hurried into a store, it appears that…

Exciting news on the horizon – Kay and I have a new set of wheels! The car I purchased brand new in 2016 was starting to feel a bit snug for both Kay and me, prompting the decision to explore our options.   While our initial plan was just to browse through cars, as many…

This weekend brought a delightful experience as Kay, my parents, and I indulged in a pancake breakfast with princesses, courtesy of the annual event organized by Down Syndrome Connections, a local organization dedicated to supporting individuals with Down syndrome.   It’s heartening to have various organizations providing opportunities for our kids to attend such fantastic…

Kay recently had her routine 6th-month checkup with her audiologist. Living with severe hearing loss in her right ear since birth, Kay relies on a Bone Anchored Hearing Aid (BAHA), a headband equipped with a bone conduction hearing device that significantly improves her ability to hear.   These checkups are crucial to ensure the proper…

Saturday night brought a delightful surprise for Kay and me as we attended a friend’s birthday party together. Typically, Kay’s bedtime is around 7:00 pm, but the party conveniently started at the same time, giving us the chance to join in on the festivities. Kay, dressed in her pajamas, was all set for a night…

After a couple of months filled with holiday festivities, visitors, and a series of unavoidable disruptions, Kay and I finally had the opportunity to attend music class on Saturday. Our usual weekly routine had been interrupted, but we were eager to get back to the familiar and enjoyable activity.   Despite the recent chaos, music…

On Friday, Kay returned to her weekly therapy session, and there was a noticeable improvement in her overall well-being. Encouraged by this positive shift, I decided it was worth giving the sessions a try and seeing how things unfolded.   Recognizing that the therapy might not be as productive given Kay’s recent recovery from a…

Life with Kay is a rollercoaster of events. There are days filled with appointments and exciting moments, while other times it’s pleasantly uneventful.   This month, however, has been far from uneventful. It kicked off with Kay starting preschool, exposing her to a whole new world of germs. Little did we know that this month…

I can hardly contain my excitement—Netflix just released a new season of “Love On The Spectrum”! If you haven’t watched it yet, I highly recommend giving it a go.   This remarkable show delves into the world of dating while being on the Autism spectrum, offering a unique perspective from every member of the family.…

January has been quite a whirlwind, marked by unexpected events that have kept us on our toes. It feels like we’re getting all the challenges out of the way early in the month, and I’m optimistic that the rest of the year will bring brighter moments.   Unfortunately, our household wasn’t spared from the chaos.…

Life has a funny way of showing you signs, and on that fateful Saturday, January 6th, it became abundantly clear. As Kay and I headed to her beloved music class, an unexpected detour led us down a path we never anticipated. Little did I know, this deviation would soon become a pivotal moment in our…

Navigating Kay’s annual blood work has always been a challenging ordeal. It’s a heart-wrenching experience to witness your child in distress, especially when the objective is essential for her well-being. My search to find proficient lab technicians who can perform the procedure efficiently and with minimal discomfort for Kay has been ongoing. The last thing…

Navigating Kay’s yearly eye exam, especially with her having Down Syndrome, has always been a significant part of our routine since she was merely a year old. This commitment stems from the increased health risks she faces, including potential eyesight issues.   As Kay matures, these appointments’ present new challenges. It’s a tough balance—trying to…

Tuesday, January 2nd, 2024: Today marked a significant milestone for our family – Kay’s first day of preschool! As we approached the school, I could sense her mixed emotions. While excitement bubbled within her, there was a hint of apprehension as well.   Upon reaching the cafeteria, where her teacher and new friends awaited, Kay’s…

2023’s New Year’s Eve unfolded as a tranquil and intimate affair. Our agenda was simple: enjoy the comforts of our home, indulge in delicious snacks, and immerse ourselves in a movie marathon.   Initially, I pondered with the idea of allowing Kay to stay up until midnight. However, as the evening progressed, fatigue began to…

Kay’s third birthday on December 30th was a poignant reminder of the fleeting nature of time, especially considering how swiftly it has passed since Kay entered our lives. Ever since her spirited entrance into this world, Kay has consistently showcased resilience and strength, leaving me perpetually amazed.   Our morning began with a trip to…

Kay’s Christmas was brimming with delightful activities! On the Friday preceding Christmas Eve, Kay and I briefly joined my dad at his union’s Christmas party. Kay was excited that she had another chance to see Santa. After sharing her Christmas wishes with him, she chose a toy to bring home. Her selection? A cuddly Bluey…

In December, Kay completed her final month of therapies with Nevada Early Intervention Services. As she turns three on December 30th, she’ll transition out of this remarkable program that has been a cornerstone since her birth.   We’ve been fortunate to have some of these therapists by our side since Kay’s newborn days. Their kindness…

Recently, I was watching one of my favorite Christmas movies, called “The Family Stone.”   In a poignant scene, a son introduces his girlfriend to the family during Christmas. As they gather around the dinner table, the conversation takes an unexpected turn when the topic of one son being gay arises. The mom, in a…

We celebrated Kay’s third birthday a bit early on Saturday, December 16th. Her birthday celebration was filled with friends, laughter, and a special surprise guest – Elsa! Since Kay was about a year old, Kay has adored the movie Frozen, making it the perfect theme for her birthday party this year.   The joy on…

Last month, Kay underwent an evaluation with Child Find, a program that assists in placing children with diverse abilities in appropriate school settings. Child Find extends its services to children aged three or older, even those not yet enrolled in school. Due to Kay being born with Down Syndrome, she qualified for Early Intervention Services.…

Kay has had a packed holiday season so far! On Saturday, December 9th, Kay got to see Santa again! My parents and I took Kay to a local coffee shop called Dig It! Coffee Co. I first learned about Dig It when Kay was a year old. I can’t recall exactly how I discovered it,…

On Saturday, December 2nd, Kay, and I joined my boyfriend, Spencer, and his son, Ethan, to witness a delightful Christmas parade! Kay had a blast, reveling in the diverse characters and lively dancing. The organizers even added a touch of magic with fake snow, although Kay seemed a bit uncertain about it. Kay’s affection for…

December. Can you believe it’s already December? This year has truly flown by! Kay has resumed her weekly therapies! We took a little break previously, and now Kay is back at it, engaging in Physical Therapy, Speech Therapy, and Occupational Therapy every week. You should see the enthusiasm with which Kay walks into the building…

On Sunday, November 26th, my mom, and I had the pleasure of attending the 35th annual Down Syndrome Organization of Southern Nevada’s Festival of Trees and Lights gala! Being able to attend such an amazing event this year, while being a board member of this organization, made everything even more special!   The evening was…

Being a board member of the Down Syndrome Organization of Southern Nevada has been such an eye-opening experience these last few months. I haven’t been a board member for long, but it’s really helped open my eyes even more than they already were. My role as a board member of DSOSN includes overseeing the welcoming…

Why do we advocate? That’s such a broad question. You’ll come to find that I write about advocating and the importance of it quite frequently. We advocate to ensure that our kids can live a quality, happy life that they deserve – a life like yours and mine. We advocate so that those with different…

Thanksgiving 2023 proved to be an eventful affair! Kay, my parents, my boyfriend, Spencer, and I gathered for lunch at my parents’ house, where a delicious spread awaited us-smoked brisket, green bean casserole, stuffing, rolls, and mashed potatoes. Kay, being a somewhat selective eater, stuck to mashed potatoes and rolls. Toddlers, right? Lol. After enjoying…

On November 14th, Kay had her meeting with Child Find, an organization dedicated to supporting children aged 3-5 with disabilities. Their mission is to assess these youngsters and ensure they are placed in an optimal environment for success in school. Kay and I are collaborating with Child Find to set everything up for Preschool! The…

If there’s anything that Kay loves, it’s playing with her friends! Kay adores kids in general and thoroughly enjoys playdates and activities that involve seeing her friends! Recently, Kay went to Wally Wombats, which is a super cool indoor playground for younger kids where they can safely run around and play with friends and other…

On October 27th, my mom and I had the privilege of attending the inaugural GiGi’s Playhouse Be Our Beginning Gala. The night was filled with delectable food, delightful entertainment, heartwarming stories, a silent auction, and exciting announcements about the future of GiGi’s Playhouse in Las Vegas. Although Kay was unable to attend, her picture served…

What is the reality of parenting a child with special needs? It involves hearing remarks like, “There’s something going on in there. I can tell!” when someone observes your child. It means attending numerous specialist appointments being asked by the doctor to confirm that your child has Down syndrome, and when you confirm that they…

Becoming a first-time mother is a journey filled with challenges and unexpected twists, especially when faced with medical complexities and the ongoing pandemic. Navigating the web of doctors, specialists, and the transformations in your own body to welcome a new life can be incredibly stressful. My own experience of pregnancy, amidst the lockdowns and heightened…

Hello, I’m Jessica, and I’m Kay’s mother. Welcome to Kay’s world! Here, you’ll get to know Kay and her family as time goes on. Kay is 2 ½ years old and was born with Down Syndrome. When I first learned of Kay’s diagnosis during my pregnancy, it left me in shock, filled with fear, nervousness,…