Kay’s World

Kay and I recently attended an event called “A Little Extra PT,” hosted by Down Syndrome Connections, a non-profit serving our community. We’re fortunate to have not just one, but three outstanding organizations dedicated to supporting individuals with Down Syndrome.   One of the standout features of Down Syndrome Connections is their diverse range of…

Kay and I attended our second LMNOP session at GiGi’s Playhouse! I appreciate how each session brings something new, keeping both kids and parents engaged and eagerly anticipating what’s in store for the next week.   This session’s focus was on the beloved book “Brown Bear, Brown Bear” – a personal favorite of mine! Regardless…

My parents organized a street potluck with some of our neighbors from around the area. Dad smoked pulled pork while Mom prepared a variety of sides. We set up tables and chairs, and as our neighbors arrived, they pitched in, helping arrange seating and placing dishes on the table.   More neighbors soon joined in,…

This weekend overflowed with activities! From sports, to playtime, classes with friends, and a delightful dinner gathering with loved ones.   Our family and friends feast featured two varieties of mouthwatering smoked ribs expertly crafted by my dad, complemented by an array of delicious sides prepared by my mom. It was heartening to share these…

Kay and I had the pleasure of joining our first-ever LMNOP class at GiGi’s Playhouse since its opening, alongside our friends!   LMNOP, short for Language Music N’ Our Peeps, is a dynamic program designed to facilitate parent-child learning through basic sign language and other communication methods, all set to the backdrop of music and…

This weekend marked a significant milestone for Kay as she participated in her very first t-ball game! The weather couldn’t have been more perfect, and I’m immensely grateful for organizations like Miracle League that offer Kay the chance to engage in enjoyable activities alongside her peers.   The sheer delight on Kay’s face upon arriving…

Kay, my boyfriend, and I decided to dedicate a day to pure enjoyment and bonding! It had been a while since Kay had visited Wally Wombats, so I thought it was time to let her revel in the fun. Wally Wombats holds a special place in both our hearts as it’s a haven where Kay…

March hasn’t been too kind to our T-Ball plans! Despite having one event and two games scheduled this month, all of them had to be postponed because of the weather. But I’m keeping my fingers crossed that April will bring us better luck and we can finally kick off the T-Ball season!   Last Sunday…

Kay’s recent visit to her ENT for her routine 6-month check in was reassuring. Given the smaller ear canals often associated with Down Syndrome, individuals like Kay are more prone to ear infections, along with enlarged tonsils and adenoids. At just a year old, Kay underwent surgery to address her enlarged tonsils and adenoids, which…

Sunday marked the 3rd annual GiGi’s Playhouse GiGi Fit Acceptance Challenge, a vibrant event featuring a 5k Fun Run, a 1-mile inspirational walk, and a Kids Dash for Down Syndrome.   Each year, I eagerly anticipate this wonderful occasion. It’s a chance to wear playful attire like tutus and whimsical socks, along with shirts bearing…

Saturday was supposed to be Kay’s debut T-Ball game, an event eagerly anticipated by both of us. However, Mother Nature had different plans, leading the league to call off the game due to inclement weather. While disappointed by the cancellation, I agreed that it was better for the kids not to endure unpleasant conditions on…

Last Friday, Kay’s school organized a family engagement event for the Pre-K students. Since Kay doesn’t usually have classes on Fridays, these special activities are a treat for her from time to time. The focus of last week’s gathering was a hands-on pizza-making session!   Pizza happens to be Kay’s absolute favorite food, and she…

On Thursday, March 21st, we celebrated World Down Syndrome Day! Each year, I find myself deeply thankful for the opportunity to honor this remarkable day because of Kay. It’s a time when we rally our loved ones to sport silly or mismatched socks, symbolizing chromosomes, in celebration.   The significance of socks in representing chromosomes…

Kay’s weekly therapy sessions have transitioned from Friday afternoons to Tuesday afternoons, a change I believe will greatly benefit us. By tackling therapy early in the week and maintaining the same schedule, it feels like a seamless transition.   Witnessing Kay’s growing independence has been a remarkable experience. As she confidently walks hand in hand…

Excitement fills the air as Kay prepares to embark on her T-Ball journey with The Angels. From the thrill of picking up her jersey and hat to envisioning her walk-out song, every moment is a testament to her eagerness to hit the field.   Kay and I recently had the joy of picking up her…

On Saturday, March 9th, a momentous occasion unfolded as Las Vegas GiGi’s Playhouse opened its doors! This achievement was made possible by our incredible community, whose unwavering support has been instrumental since the project’s inception in 2019, long before Kay came into the world. Spearheaded by a group of determined mothers, undeterred even by the…

This Sunday, Kay and I had a blast attending the 6th birthday party of one of her friends at Chuck E. Cheese! It had been ages since my last visit, and things were a bit different, but Kay and I thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. Kay dove into games, even taking a shot at a driving game,…

Kay recently underwent another hearing test through Child Find, an organization I highly appreciate for its abundant resources and useful tools. Typically, Kay meets with her audiologist every six months. During these sessions, the audiologist ensures her Bone Anchored Hearing Aid (BAHA) is in optimal condition, making any necessary updates to maintain its effectiveness. Following…

Kay’s love for school remains unwavering, evident in her newfound independence as she confidently strides into the entrance without even a backward glance when I drop her off.   Receiving spontaneous pictures from her teacher is always a highlight for me. These snapshots capture Kay in various scenarios, whether it’s on the playground or in…

Taking advantage of Kay’s day off from school for President’s Day, we decided to embrace the beautiful weather and head to the park for some fun. As we arrived, it became apparent that we weren’t the only ones capitalizing on the day off and favorable conditions to enjoy the park.   Kay’s enthusiasm for the…

Kay recently had the pleasure of meeting her second cousin, Kenny! We seized the opportunity for a brief visit with my cousin, who managed to squeeze in a short trip to Las Vegas. It had been a few years since I last saw him, and he hadn’t yet met Kay, so I’m thrilled that he…

Last Saturday, my parents, Kay, and I had the pleasure of attending the 2024 Super Fest organized by the Matthew Foundation. Super Fest is a unique Football, Cheer, and Sideline Reporting Camp that embraces inclusivity for individuals of all abilities – a truly remarkable initiative!   Kay had the opportunity to step into the world…

One valuable lesson I’ve grasped is that there’s often a purpose behind every occurrence, even when it’s something you’d rather avoid.   In a twist of fate, just within a week of showcasing my new car in the previous blog, an unexpected incident unfolded. While Kay and I hurried into a store, it appears that…

Exciting news on the horizon – Kay and I have a new set of wheels! The car I purchased brand new in 2016 was starting to feel a bit snug for both Kay and me, prompting the decision to explore our options.   While our initial plan was just to browse through cars, as many…

This weekend brought a delightful experience as Kay, my parents, and I indulged in a pancake breakfast with princesses, courtesy of the annual event organized by Down Syndrome Connections, a local organization dedicated to supporting individuals with Down syndrome.   It’s heartening to have various organizations providing opportunities for our kids to attend such fantastic…

Kay recently had her routine 6th-month checkup with her audiologist. Living with severe hearing loss in her right ear since birth, Kay relies on a Bone Anchored Hearing Aid (BAHA), a headband equipped with a bone conduction hearing device that significantly improves her ability to hear.   These checkups are crucial to ensure the proper…

Saturday night brought a delightful surprise for Kay and me as we attended a friend’s birthday party together. Typically, Kay’s bedtime is around 7:00 pm, but the party conveniently started at the same time, giving us the chance to join in on the festivities. Kay, dressed in her pajamas, was all set for a night…

After a couple of months filled with holiday festivities, visitors, and a series of unavoidable disruptions, Kay and I finally had the opportunity to attend music class on Saturday. Our usual weekly routine had been interrupted, but we were eager to get back to the familiar and enjoyable activity.   Despite the recent chaos, music…

On Friday, Kay returned to her weekly therapy session, and there was a noticeable improvement in her overall well-being. Encouraged by this positive shift, I decided it was worth giving the sessions a try and seeing how things unfolded.   Recognizing that the therapy might not be as productive given Kay’s recent recovery from a…

Life with Kay is a rollercoaster of events. There are days filled with appointments and exciting moments, while other times it’s pleasantly uneventful.   This month, however, has been far from uneventful. It kicked off with Kay starting preschool, exposing her to a whole new world of germs. Little did we know that this month…

I can hardly contain my excitement—Netflix just released a new season of “Love On The Spectrum”! If you haven’t watched it yet, I highly recommend giving it a go.   This remarkable show delves into the world of dating while being on the Autism spectrum, offering a unique perspective from every member of the family.…

January has been quite a whirlwind, marked by unexpected events that have kept us on our toes. It feels like we’re getting all the challenges out of the way early in the month, and I’m optimistic that the rest of the year will bring brighter moments.   Unfortunately, our household wasn’t spared from the chaos.…

Life has a funny way of showing you signs, and on that fateful Saturday, January 6th, it became abundantly clear. As Kay and I headed to her beloved music class, an unexpected detour led us down a path we never anticipated. Little did I know, this deviation would soon become a pivotal moment in our…

Navigating Kay’s annual blood work has always been a challenging ordeal. It’s a heart-wrenching experience to witness your child in distress, especially when the objective is essential for her well-being. My search to find proficient lab technicians who can perform the procedure efficiently and with minimal discomfort for Kay has been ongoing. The last thing…

Navigating Kay’s yearly eye exam, especially with her having Down Syndrome, has always been a significant part of our routine since she was merely a year old. This commitment stems from the increased health risks she faces, including potential eyesight issues.   As Kay matures, these appointments’ present new challenges. It’s a tough balance—trying to…

Tuesday, January 2nd, 2024: Today marked a significant milestone for our family – Kay’s first day of preschool! As we approached the school, I could sense her mixed emotions. While excitement bubbled within her, there was a hint of apprehension as well.   Upon reaching the cafeteria, where her teacher and new friends awaited, Kay’s…

2023’s New Year’s Eve unfolded as a tranquil and intimate affair. Our agenda was simple: enjoy the comforts of our home, indulge in delicious snacks, and immerse ourselves in a movie marathon.   Initially, I pondered with the idea of allowing Kay to stay up until midnight. However, as the evening progressed, fatigue began to…

Kay’s third birthday on December 30th was a poignant reminder of the fleeting nature of time, especially considering how swiftly it has passed since Kay entered our lives. Ever since her spirited entrance into this world, Kay has consistently showcased resilience and strength, leaving me perpetually amazed.   Our morning began with a trip to…

Kay’s Christmas was brimming with delightful activities! On the Friday preceding Christmas Eve, Kay and I briefly joined my dad at his union’s Christmas party. Kay was excited that she had another chance to see Santa. After sharing her Christmas wishes with him, she chose a toy to bring home. Her selection? A cuddly Bluey…

In December, Kay completed her final month of therapies with Nevada Early Intervention Services. As she turns three on December 30th, she’ll transition out of this remarkable program that has been a cornerstone since her birth.   We’ve been fortunate to have some of these therapists by our side since Kay’s newborn days. Their kindness…

Recently, I was watching one of my favorite Christmas movies, called “The Family Stone.”   In a poignant scene, a son introduces his girlfriend to the family during Christmas. As they gather around the dinner table, the conversation takes an unexpected turn when the topic of one son being gay arises. The mom, in a…

We celebrated Kay’s third birthday a bit early on Saturday, December 16th. Her birthday celebration was filled with friends, laughter, and a special surprise guest – Elsa! Since Kay was about a year old, Kay has adored the movie Frozen, making it the perfect theme for her birthday party this year.   The joy on…

Last month, Kay underwent an evaluation with Child Find, a program that assists in placing children with diverse abilities in appropriate school settings. Child Find extends its services to children aged three or older, even those not yet enrolled in school. Due to Kay being born with Down Syndrome, she qualified for Early Intervention Services.…

Kay has had a packed holiday season so far! On Saturday, December 9th, Kay got to see Santa again! My parents and I took Kay to a local coffee shop called Dig It! Coffee Co. I first learned about Dig It when Kay was a year old. I can’t recall exactly how I discovered it,…

On Saturday, December 2nd, Kay, and I joined my boyfriend, Spencer, and his son, Ethan, to witness a delightful Christmas parade! Kay had a blast, reveling in the diverse characters and lively dancing. The organizers even added a touch of magic with fake snow, although Kay seemed a bit uncertain about it. Kay’s affection for…

December. Can you believe it’s already December? This year has truly flown by! Kay has resumed her weekly therapies! We took a little break previously, and now Kay is back at it, engaging in Physical Therapy, Speech Therapy, and Occupational Therapy every week. You should see the enthusiasm with which Kay walks into the building…

On Sunday, November 26th, my mom, and I had the pleasure of attending the 35th annual Down Syndrome Organization of Southern Nevada’s Festival of Trees and Lights gala! Being able to attend such an amazing event this year, while being a board member of this organization, made everything even more special!   The evening was…

Being a board member of the Down Syndrome Organization of Southern Nevada has been such an eye-opening experience these last few months. I haven’t been a board member for long, but it’s really helped open my eyes even more than they already were. My role as a board member of DSOSN includes overseeing the welcoming…

Why do we advocate? That’s such a broad question. You’ll come to find that I write about advocating and the importance of it quite frequently. We advocate to ensure that our kids can live a quality, happy life that they deserve – a life like yours and mine. We advocate so that those with different…

Thanksgiving 2023 proved to be an eventful affair! Kay, my parents, my boyfriend, Spencer, and I gathered for lunch at my parents’ house, where a delicious spread awaited us-smoked brisket, green bean casserole, stuffing, rolls, and mashed potatoes. Kay, being a somewhat selective eater, stuck to mashed potatoes and rolls. Toddlers, right? Lol. After enjoying…

On November 14th, Kay had her meeting with Child Find, an organization dedicated to supporting children aged 3-5 with disabilities. Their mission is to assess these youngsters and ensure they are placed in an optimal environment for success in school. Kay and I are collaborating with Child Find to set everything up for Preschool! The…

If there’s anything that Kay loves, it’s playing with her friends! Kay adores kids in general and thoroughly enjoys playdates and activities that involve seeing her friends! Recently, Kay went to Wally Wombats, which is a super cool indoor playground for younger kids where they can safely run around and play with friends and other…

On October 27th, my mom and I had the privilege of attending the inaugural GiGi’s Playhouse Be Our Beginning Gala. The night was filled with delectable food, delightful entertainment, heartwarming stories, a silent auction, and exciting announcements about the future of GiGi’s Playhouse in Las Vegas. Although Kay was unable to attend, her picture served…

What is the reality of parenting a child with special needs? It involves hearing remarks like, “There’s something going on in there. I can tell!” when someone observes your child. It means attending numerous specialist appointments being asked by the doctor to confirm that your child has Down syndrome, and when you confirm that they…

Becoming a first-time mother is a journey filled with challenges and unexpected twists, especially when faced with medical complexities and the ongoing pandemic. Navigating the web of doctors, specialists, and the transformations in your own body to welcome a new life can be incredibly stressful. My own experience of pregnancy, amidst the lockdowns and heightened…

Hello, I’m Jessica, and I’m Kay’s mother. Welcome to Kay’s world! Here, you’ll get to know Kay and her family as time goes on. Kay is 2 ½ years old and was born with Down Syndrome. When I first learned of Kay’s diagnosis during my pregnancy, it left me in shock, filled with fear, nervousness,…